You've spent years
honing your skills.
Not only do you know
the concept of framing a solid house, you have done it time and
again.
You have learned the
intricacies of trim work...how to cope window and door casings and
baseboards so that all of your joints are tight. If it can be done
with wood, you can do it.
You decide to build
a house.
There are some
skills that fall outside your area of expertise, such as masonry,
plumbing, heating and air, electrical work, and painting, but
fortunately you know people who are good at those things. Some of
them even agree to help you out for less money than they would like
to get paid, but they like you, and they would rather be working on
something than not. Even so, there is money that has to be spent in
order to get the house built. Money that comes out of your pocket.
After all the
working and worrying (and no small amount of spending) is done, you
finally have a beautiful house. You are proud of the work you have
done, and appreciative of the others who helped you complete the
project.
Along come people
who say “Nice house” and then expect to live in it...for free.
After all, it's
already built. Why shouldn't they move in? They like the house. In
their minds, it belongs to them. If they compensated you for it, you
might be able to build another one, but all of the love and labor you
invested in that house is not even a consideration.
Okay.
Now imagine you're a
songwriter….
I have had people look at me with a glazed kook in their eye after explaining this concept to them. I just don't understand why people don't get it. It's no different than just walking up and taking something off someone's property.
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